Engagement Rings vs Wedding Rings: Key Differences You Should Know
Engagement rings and wedding rings are sort of “the dynamic duo” of a serious relationship. The engagement ring symbolizes a promise to marry, while the wedding ring is slipped on the finger on the Big Day as a statement of your commitment.
Wedding rings are of a simpler design, with both the bride and groom wearing them. The engagement ring can be a bit flashier and is only worn by the bride-to-be. Both rings are then worn together, with the wedding ring worn closer to the heart and the engagement ring atop it on the finger
Some brides opt to use the engagement ring as the wedding ring, slipping it on at the ceremony. It’s a matter of personal choice (and can save some money as well).
What is an Engagement Ring?
Engagement rings represent a beautiful promise to marry and are given at the time of a proposal, slipped onto the left-hand ring finger.
It typically features a large gemstone, which is most often a diamond.
Some brides-to-be are choosing to wear just one ring. To wear your engagement ring as your wedding ring is a matter of personal preference and is a smart way to save money.
What is a Wedding Ring?
Importance of Choosing the Right Ring
Besides the symbolism and the beauty of diamond rings, it’s important to pick the right one because you’re going to be wearing it forever. Quality stones and settings will hold up against the stressors of daily life. If your lifestyle is very active and outdoorsy, or requires you to work with your hands, you’ll want a design that doesn’t get in the way.
Engagement rings and wedding rings are pieces of fine jewelry, and you want them to flatter your hand in the best way. For that reason, choosing the right shape of a diamond and placing it in the right kind of setting is essential.
Difference Between Engagement and Wedding Ring
The creation of engagement rings and wedding rings goes back as far as ancient Egypt as symbols of love and commitment. This tradition then spread to Greece and Rome. The earliest ones were made from bone, iron, or bronze – or simply woven reeds. During medieval times, brides wore three rings to symbolize the Holy Trinity. In 1477, the first mention of using a diamond in a ring design was recorded and that tradition continues today in both engagement and wedding rings.
Engagement rings are given during a proposal of marriage as a promise to wed; wedding rings are exchanged during the wedding ceremony and both members of the couple wear them. The engagement ring, worn only by the bride-to-be, typically features a bolder design and bigger stone than the simpler wedding band.
History
These two types of rings go back to ancient times, starting with the Egyptians. The tradition then spread to Greece and Rome. Rings have evolved from woven hemp or reeds to a plain metal band made of iron or copper worn on the ring finger of the left hand. In the Middle Ages, intricate designs meant to express eternal love were carved onto the wedding band, inside of it. Some brides wore three rings on separate fingers to symbolize the Holy Trinity.
Engagement rings with a large center stone, usually a diamond, became popular during the 20th century.
Symbolism
The circular shape of the rings is meant to symbolize eternal commitment. To wear wedding rings on the ring finger -- the fourth finger of the left hand -- stems from the Egyptians’ belief that a “vein of love” ran from there to the heart.
Design
Designs have evolved from simple rings made of woven reed, bone, or ivory to elaborate settings featuring multiple gemstones or a diamond as the center stone. Diamonds have been a fixture in engagement and wedding rings since the 20th century.
Occasion
The engagement ring symbolizes a promise to marry the recipient. Wedding rings are exchanged at the ceremony and worn by both the bride and groom. The bride may wear her engagement ring on the ring finger but atop the wedding ring. She may even opt to use her expensive engagement ring as the wedding ring; it's perfectly fine.
Cultural and Traditional Significance
Engagement rings aren’t always diamonds: emeralds, rubies, and sapphires are other popular stones. In some cultures, engagement rings are worn on the right hand. Traditionally, only women wear an engagement ring.
How to Wear Your Engagement and Wedding Ring?
Things to Consider Before Buying a Ring
When shopping for the perfect ring, start with your budget. Engagement rings cost two months' salary on average. For wedding rings, couples typically spend anywhere from $1000 to $5000.
Diamonds should be evaluated by the Four C’s: carats, clarity, cut, and color. Carats are how a diamond is weighed and bigger doesn’t always mean better. The cut is key because it can make a small stone appear larger. Different cuts flatter different finger shapes and lengths; you’ll want to see what looks best on your hand since you’ll be wearing it forever.
The setting and the metal used in the band also influence the overall look. You might like the look of an old-fashioned “buttercup” setting with a white gold band. There are many possibilities.
Budget
Be prepared to spend a few thousand dollars on both an engagement ring and wedding bands. The good news is that Capucelli offers high-quality rings at an affordable price (we cut out the middleman markup).
Style
Explore what diamond shapes will look best on your hand. Long fingers can wear almost anything, but short fingers will look more balanced with a stone cut into an elongated shape like an oval or pear. Also, keep in mind that Capucelli can create a custom ring designed to your specifications.
Materials
The setting and materials are just as important as the diamond itself. Do you prefer white gold or yellow? A 3-prong setting or a buttercup setting? Take your time exploring these elements.
Conclusion
Are engagement rings and wedding rings the same? Not exactly. The engagement ring is a pledge to marry the recipient, while the wedding rings are symbols of commitment exchanged between the couple at the wedding ceremony. Some people purchase their wedding and engagement rings at different times. However, there are bridal sets that feature two rings, both a wedding ring and engagement ring, in a matching set. That can be more convenient (and cost-saving) than purchasing rings separately. It's really a matter of personal preference.
Whatever kind of ring you're in search of to take your relationship to the next step, we invite you to shop the gorgeous selection from Capucelli. And if you don't see what you want, ask us about creating a custom ring just for you.
